Older Women, Younger Men How do They Love Each Other

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By felzmae

In falling in love age gap doesn’t matter though women are older than men. Some men sighed, “No man can simply resist the seductive charm of one of the prettiest woman in the universe.” How about older woman who don’t possess an attractive beauty who also fell in love with younger men? Our civilization frowns on older woman and younger men relationship. Underneath its surface lies an unknown fear. What future waits for this kind of affair? Older women and wives share the same feeling. Indeed, there are many apprehensions and worrying questions concerning the big gap in the relationship. An older woman will fight their emotions so as not to give way to entice of love to a younger man.

Usually, women involved with a younger man are bothered by one great fear: the coming of the day when they will lose their sex appeal—from sagging breast and flabby thighs to gray hair and wrinkles.

They fright that when this comes, the affection of their young lover will turn to another woman.

The younger men romantically linked with older partners like for example they are not conscious of the wide age gap. Many feel that one’s feelings and emotions have nothing to do with the age difference.

"when falling in love age gap doesn't matter."
"when falling in love age gap doesn't matter."

Usually according to study they have a high regard with admiration for older women whom they are having a relationship with. They feel secure in their love and find them more considerate to their needs and idiosyncrasies. In this kind of set up, they point out that they don’t have to compete with their partners to prove their worth. They observe that older women are loving, warm and demonstrative in their love. They are more confident and emotionally mature.  Above all, most are financially stable.

According to Victoria Houston, the author of Loving a Younger Man said that:

 “The woman who falls in love with a younger man is not trying to boss around, instead she is just looking for a man who will be an equal partner in life. Younger men differ from the older men as they say do not hesitate to have their share in the household chores. Not like the older men who boss around and wait to be served.

Why worry over a relationship with a younger man? The point to keep in focus is that these relationships will either succeed or fail on the same reasons couples of all age groups make or don’t make it. Age difference has no ill-effect with regards to longevity of marriage. Like the complex trial and error in marriage, hard work and luck are also the necessary ingredients to make a marriage grow. But most of all, what makes the relationship work are: the ability to communicate, respect for one another, sharing the same interest, good times of togetherness, and a tinge of intimacy.”

Comments

harcharansingh 4 weeks ago

how we can adjust while having so much difference in their age

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